KARACHI: As time goes on, dynamics change. What was unacceptable a generation ago has become the norm for the current generation. With changes comes the need for more conversations. However, even though we’re living in 2023, desi families are still not ready to have conversations about matters they really should be having!
Mental heath is associated with weakness (usually religiously) rather than a medical condition. If you want to see a psychiatrist, it will either be considered a waste of money or you’ll be seen as a threat to your family’s reputation.
Domestic violence
is considered as a private matter instead of a social issue. They don’t talk about it openly because they believe it will bring shame and embarrassment due to which it becomes difficult for people to to seek help. Rather than being a conversation to have with your children, especially those who are about to get married, this is one of those conversations desi families refuse to have!
The word itself contains a lot of stigma. It’s alright to have sex
but we must never talk about it. They believe it’s a private matter and talking about it is inappropriate or shameful which makes it difficult for people to get much needed sex education.
Periods
are still seen as a taboo. Rather than considering it as a normal biological process, they associate it with shame and impurity. Specially in front of men. It’s important to break these walls and create a safe space for honest conversations.
Divorce is associated with disrespect and dishonor. It’s like you’ve failed as a person instead of realizing that two individuals are not compatible with each other and can’t live together. People are forced to stay in bad marriages because it will bring shame and guilt to their families.
You would think these conversations were normal to have but not for desi families. Perhaps it’s time?
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